PPT Slide
I’M NOT OKAY -- YOU’RE NOT OKAY
- A VERY Sad Case -- severe child abuse usually results in this condition. The person has given up and stopped trying. Conditioned to accept and expect negative stroking. Can accept no compliments, since “they are insincere.” Without help this person is on the way to mental illness or jail.
I’M OKAY -- YOU’RE OKAY
- This is the best position of the four, but must be actively pursued. The first three are unconsciously attained - this position is attained only through conscious commitment and effort. It is very much like Maslow’s self-actualization level. You are most productive and happy in this Life Position. Not only is your ADULT functioning well, but you can “let your NATURAL CHILD out” and have fun without guilt, and when appropriate, you can extend a helping hand through your NURTURING PARENT.